we have a baby on the way.

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I�ve been with my girl for like almost a year now and we got a baby on the way and everything. We argue a lot because she never really shows too much feelings for me or anything and she claims that she does and I give her pretty much everything I can. I always buy her things and I always show her love, I never slack on things I really give her everything I can. We argue sometimes because she�s not there for me. She puts her family before me and a lot of stuff like that. I know it hasn�t been that long that we�ve together but we got a baby on the way and everything, she�s like my family now. She is my family now I just want to know what I should do to make her get closer to me and everything because I�m starting to get sick of it.

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Tell her how you feel but remember that it�s important to be supportive of people�s family relationships. Also, being pregnant can affect your mood and emotions because of all the hormones so take her feelings into consideration when you talk to her. Maybe she�s experiencing concerns or doubts that she doesn�t know how to talk to you about. Or maybe being pregnant is making her uncomfortable or tired and she just wants to be home with her family. Having a baby always changes the relationship because the baby ALWAYS has to come first with BOTH people.

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Family always comes first. Face it honey.

Just tel her to chose who she wants to be with

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No person should have to choose between their family and partner. You're not in a relationship with your family so you cannot say choose who you want to be with. They will soon have a family and everything will change. You need your family's support when bringing in another life. Just like he is going to need.

You will soon have your own family but family is always first.

Get over it. Family is number one !

Your not supposed to do anything she is supposed to care about her family too. Not only you

Be supportive of her desire to be close to her family. Don’t make it U vs Them. Focus on specific requests, let her know how important that thing is 2u.

Explain to her that you understand how important family is- and thats why you want her to make the one you’re starting together a priority.

Just take care of her,she probably feels like she has to watch over them

i think u should tell her how u feel about everything. But she does need a balance between her family n her relationship wit u! But she needs to be wit u as well so u can get used to having a family of her own as well

well her family is all ways first. U would do the same thing ask she did but it ur calm and once that baby comes then you and him will be first.

Dont worry things will change after the babys born & u should understand her its her family she been with them all of her life & u havent been there long enough

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Even if you have been with someone for 40 years, you're going to always have to share them.

Let her be wit fam

she has every rite to do that. i know i would. its ok.

Family always comes first but she should start to consider you now more since a baby is on the way

family is rly important to some ppl n especially if a baby on the way ur gf probley wants all the family support she can get but u shud jus talk to her bout it and be real but be nice too n jus tell her how u feel

The BOM Ambassadors say

That is wonderful advice! Family support is one of the most needed things when expecting a child and even after the child is born! Communication is also the key. Fighting can cause stress and stress is not good for a pregnant women nor for the dad to be. Expressing yourself in a calm manner even if she is still yelling, can dominate the conversation. If two people are yelling, the conversation is never won. Yelling=argument. Talking calmly=conversation