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There was this guy I was dating for a while then drama happened and we wanted to take a break so we both can get refocused on what we want in our lives. We haven’t spoken in a while so I was just worried. I tried talking to him but he never answers. I need ideas. What do I do? Just wait for him to talk to me? Or keep trying to contact him? I still care a lot about him and last time about 2 months ago he said he cared for me too and just needed some space. I’m confused on what to do. Help?

The BOM Ambassadors say

If he’s not giving you the time you deserve, he’s not worth yours. You could call him one more time and let him know you’d like to get back in touch (leave a message if he doesn’t pick up because he’ll hear what you have to say even if you don’t get to hear his response). But if you don’t hear from him, let it go and focus your energy on someone who will invest the time and energy you deserve.

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You move on…

give them time and then they will come around

Shine them on

there is no break to be honest if they say it its over dont come back

respect the break.

The Best Thing To Do Is To Move On And If Your BF or GF Doesn’t Want To Talk To You Just Forget It Cause You Can’t Be To Nice That When Can Try To Use You

well i think that you should just try. My BF broke up with me but we still talk maybe if you just try he/she will talk to you.

dont try ta tlk ya dem nemore untill dey tlk ta u…...jst walk past like u dnt even knw dem

you should talk to your bfgf about what is going to happen between you guys

u man up and stop trying, bekuz after a while(usually), they call u. Asking “how come u stopped calling?”

I’m in that same situation. So just drop it for now.

“breaks” 100% of the time always without a shadow of a doubt means you guys are done. In fact he or she is most likely avoiding you because they found someone else, you should do the same.

Try getting his friends to talk to him. + i would be mad.

There’s no such thing as a break. Either you are together or not.

just let things how dey r n let some time pass then try again

Try getting his friends to talk to him. i would be mad.

well you cant really do anything because that just shows how immature he is. And you should beg!

you ignore them back and make the break permanent besides there’s many fish in the ocean

forget them! If they are being an ass and not talking to you then they dont deserve your time. You deserve someone who wont want a break from youand who wants to be with you and have fun with you all the time. smile

try harder

nothing. That is why you are on a break. Wait for them to come around and if they dont. Move on. They most likely have.

The BOM Ambassadors say

Agreed. Don't put your life on pause because he wants a break. There aren't any breaks in life so keep it pushing.Your young and so many old people wish to be in your shoes now. Have fun and live your life!!!!!

Dont talk tk them and time will heal it

I Would Dump Them. They’re Not Worth Your Time If They’re Ignoring You.

The BOM Ambassadors say

Be aware of yourself. Don't let your boyfriend consume YOUR LIFE. If he wants to break up respect it. Continue living your life or get a life.

u shud jus give em sum space cuz if there givin u those signals it seems like they want some space and if there bein rude bout it then ur proabaly better off with out em

don’t try & talk 2them in the first place

shrug it off and move on

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