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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for at least a month and he isn�t pressuring me to do anything but we haven�t even made out yet. I want to but I�m not sure if I should. Like, I like to take things slow but I don�t want to lose him�

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If you don�t feel comfortable doing something you shouldn�t do it, especially not just to impress or please someone else. It sounds like your boyfriend might be trying to take it slow too, so just wait until the time is right. Never rush into something you�re not ready for and especially don�t rush him into anything. He may feel it�s the right thing to do by waiting. If you rush or pressure him, it could push him away and if you have feelings for him, it wouldn�t be wise to do so.

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just talk to your boyfriend, if he doesnt understand, its not ment to be, ive been wit my bf for 4months and i talk to him about slowing it down and he was fine wit it

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Great advice from your own experience. Just talk it out with your boyfriend. Remember you choose to make him your boyfriend, hopefully your not being forced to be in the relationship.

Tell him how you feel and if he doesn’t show compasion then you should move on.

If he cares about you he’ll understand that you want to take to slow and you won’t loose him

talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he doesnt understand and wants to take things faster then he isnt worth and you should break up wit him.

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Foreal.. Don't make a mistake by moving too fast or doing anything you don't want to do.

Just sit him down and explain to him that you want to be with him but that you want to take things slow. You just need to tell him how you feel and everything should be fine.

if he really loves he’ll wait for you and respect you until your ready. if he doesnt,then just move on and find a better guy that will treat you the way you would like to be treated.

b honest about how u feel. If he understands then its goin 2 b ok but if he doesn’t he doesn’t respect u n he just wants u 4 sex. So b honest.

Tell him you want to take things slow and if you lose him or he pushes it obviously he’s not the guy for you anyway

just get to know him hang out talk on the phone.

Don’t ever go faster than you’re comfortable with, and make sure you’re on the same page. if he’s worth it, he’ll respect your boundaries.

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That's right. If he with you for the wrong thing you didn't need him anyway.

talk get romantic do things that led up to loving until the magic happens!

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Yeah. But if its not there it's just not there

ull need 2 talk 2 him on wat u want n if his kool wit it

Maybe u shud try smokin n drankin to see wher hes cumin from

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Whoa!!! What sense does that make?? You trippin!! Hopefully you joking cuz that's funny