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The guy that I was dating asked me to give him time and to be patient. We have a great connection, but he is not over his ex. I really care for him so much that I’m willing to wait for him. What should I do? How much time?

The BOM Ambassadors say

That is fantastic that your guy is communicating with you. Remember, before starting a relationship, you have to finish the other. Whether they are or aren’t together, he isn’t over her yet and that can complicate starting a new relationship. It’s fine for you to wait for a while but you cannot wait forever. Just recognize what he is and is not able to offer to you.
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Take it slow oh ooooooo its time to take it slow.

you dont wait. Do not wait.

Dont just move on

The BOM Ambassadors say

Communication is the key to success

if u like him stil theb do something about it; talk to him.. If u dont; let it gooo

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Maybe he is not ready to move on

dnt even waste yr time waiting on him. he shouldnt have jumped in a relationship n messed wid yr heart if he wasnt over his ex. downright immature. dnt waste yr time.

if he still likes his ex…dont wait for him…let him go…im sure you can find someone thats worth it.

The BOM Ambassadors say

Do need be a rebound

Rather make him wayt or leave him if he forces u

As long as you want.

Well guys usually have a hard time getting over there ex especially if they were close. Just give it some time.

i think u should give him all the time he needs. Just be the great friend he needs and be there for him. That will help him get over her and then he will realize that he put u off to the side and then u will be his gf again

it depends how long they were together. You should talk with him n ask him how long he needs n tell him to be completely honest with u.

If you really like him then you’ll wait .

The BOM Ambassadors say

Umm? Maybe..

U don’t wait. He won’t b ovr his x 4 a while. Move on 2 sum1 who wants somthing NEW.

The BOM Ambassadors say

Agreed. You don't want to be a rebound

I think 2 months

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Not even two months. How can there be a time limit. You should talk to him about it, don't just wait around

you shouldnt have to wait for him. Let him go and move on.

The BOM Ambassadors say

Just talk to him about it. It seems like your just beating around the bush. Be direct.

hes not into you get over it

wait until u pass collage n have a good job

The BOM Ambassadors say

Great Idea!!! expand your world

as long as it takes

Wait for a few weeks if it is longer find someone new

Don’t wait. He’s not coming back. Move on.

How ever much times if offer. If will come to you when if has had enough time. Jus dont wait for forever

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