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My boyfriend and I know we’re not ready for a baby so we decided to use condoms. I’m too embarrassed to buy them, I wouldn’t want anyone to see me because then people might think I’m a slut or something. My bf thinks it’s not fair to put it all on him but I think it’s the man’s responsibility. If he wants to have sex with me, he can bring one, don’t you think? I mean, whose responsibility is it to bring the condom?

The BOM Ambassadors say

Relationships are about compromise and both people contributed equally. It shouldn’t always have to be the man’s job to provide protection given both people are going to be using it. I understand that you are embarrassed to get the condoms, but there are plenty of places where you can get them confidentially and even sometimes for free. Look up free health clinics in your area and set up a time to go there are get condoms privately so you don’t have to worry about being seen.

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The boyfriend . It would be kinda’ wierd if the qirlfriend did . Lol

Girl should bring them T.I.K.

whoever has them. No one gender should be expected to do so.

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It's a good thing that you are thinking like that, healthy relationships are always mutual.

Both

u should

Both jus to be on the safe side

both are suppose to bring the condom.

the bf because i dont think the gf would know the size

The gf you don’t know if he has poked holes in the condom

either one of you can bring one. With me and my bf he gave me a condom to keep just in case he doesnt have one with him and we want to do it. But most of the time he brings them.

the boyfriend he needs to be man enough to do go buy them himself

The condoms who brings them is the bf o.k

he should have his favorite and you should have yours. The only argument to be had about condoms is what kind to use.

The boyfreind, hes the one who is going to wear it but just in case the gurl should have one ready so the guy wont have an excuse in not wearing a condom

usually it’s the boy, but the girl should always have some just in case the boy doesn’t have any on him.

DaGirl

i think te one who ask to other person if they want to have sex then the one who ask should bring the condom but no one should have sex because u have sex when ur married!

i think it dosent mattr as long as someone has em

both should bring it if you guys are a responsible couple and dont want to have babies

Well just to be responsible bring them no matter if you are the boyfriend or the girlfriend.

The boyfriend because he is going to use them.

It should be the guys responsibility but you should take em too jus in case.

my bf and i each have some at our own houses and i have 2 in my wallet just in case and so does he. Its both your responsibility to provide the protection.

It don’t matter both of you could

the Bf should be responsible for the condom but the girl should have some too just in case

usually it’s the boy that brings condoms, but the girl should always have some just in case the boy doesn’t have any on him

Well if you want to be safe I think both of you. Sometimes the guys want to do it but have no protection. So somethimes its good that the girl has 1

It’s a 2 people event, so u both should then choose whose to use

wait till ur married

the bf since he will be wearing it.

usually its the bf becuz hes the guy n he wears it

The bf obviously!!

we gotta step into the new century and take the initiative to protect ourselves so I think it shouldn’t matter ladies it doesn’t hurt to protect yourself

The BOM Ambassadors say

i understand where you are coming from because i feel if you want to be protected and sty protected then you need to bring the protection.

well the guy should bring the condoms but at times there has been girls who brought condoms

i would say the boy but both just in case… no condoms are a no go

i think both the gf and the bf should support the condoms. The guy should definitlyyy bt just in case his broke or sumthing then ull have an extra.

i think the guys should bring them cuz its their, well u know

BOTH….U could neva hav 2 many condoms..that way if 1 forgets then tha othr will hav them rather b safe than sorry

Uhhh The One Who Needs It ? Aka. the one with A Penis ?

bring them. if ur partner brings them, great. but never be caught without them. have fun!!!

The bf

i think that a couple shuld talk about it first nd den decide together who brings da condom

i said da gf does because the bf might 4get and then sum boys dont want a condom so has women we protect ourselfs

both should bring it if you guys are a responsible couple and dont want to have babiesg

The boyfriend.

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