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My boyfriend lives in Mexico and I live in Cali. I’ve been waiting for 2 years but it’s getting really annoying because all he does is lie over the phone and he never answers and all he does is tell me all kinds of rude stuff. He says he’s coming back but I really don’t believe him. What should I do? Should I wait around a couple more months or should I find someone else and just be his friend? From Apple Valley, Ca

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It sounds like he’s playing games and all the energy you spend waiting and wondering could be invested in someone else, or better yet- yourself. Trust and respect are just as important in friendships as they are in relationships, so if he hasn’t shown you either you might want to think about whether or not he deserves to be in your life.
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No not a good idea.

noooo way!

Hell no

If he isnt honest dont wait, you deserve better. Leave him.

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Honesty and Communication is the foundation of any relationship

Hell No Don’t Wait For Hym For What Well iF Yall Serious Ask Hym About He Gone Lie What’s The Point Of Being iN A Relationship With a Liar

Don’t wait for something that isn’t certain to always be there. Explore you’ll find something better

No you shouldn’t wait for him! Lying isn’t gonna get a person anywhere!!

no be there when he stop playing games!

no long distance relationships are a waste of time

no get over it and move on.

no move on hes most likely gona cheat on u all guys r pigs

If he’s not taking the time to call you at least one a day than that’s not so great and expecially if he’s a liar. If he’s lied before who knows what else he could be lying about and hiding from you since you both are so far away from eachother? I say you dumb him.

No… Move on

No.. Move on.. Get someone dats gonna be there wit you when you need them..

The BOM Ambassadors say

Long distance relationships are the worst. But just like a skill they require commitment

No you should not

i hve da same thing i just had 2 break up wid him so just 4get him d a new bf

I dont think you should wait because you deserve better. Go find a better guy that will call you and spend time with you. There are many guys out there!

no dont wait for him move on he’s not worth it

Uh Nooooooooooooooo commen sense hes cheatinqq.

no need to wait for him theres plenty of jerks like him locally lol

nope. If he doesnt call nd he lies…There cud be someone…Else. Besides, there r probly other local boys who wudnt lie or hurt u like that.

no way.

NO!!! Move on pleaseee. Its hard, but you’ll be glad you did.

leave his ass alone

no u shouldnt u should move on

no you should not wait for no man

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