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I'm a really jealous person with my bf. I don’t like him hanging out with his cousins because I'm afraid he will cheat on me. I don’t even like him going out. Is this feeling normal? I'm scared he will leave me cuz of this. What should I do to not feel jealous over him anymore?

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Jealousy is a totally normal emotion, but controlling your BF because of it is not healthy. If you are feeling like this, you need to talk to him about it. You should tell him that it is hard for you to trust him but that you want to work on it. It is normal for him to want to hang out with his cousins or friends, and it is important that you can let him do that without feeling threatened by it. If you talk to him, you should come up with some compromises or ways that he can help you feel more secure when he is out. This can be him checking in by calling you when he is out, or including you in what his plans are.

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depends you prob done trust him n u need to learn how to trust him.

pretty much

no its not normal ur scared ull get cheated on because of ur past relationships u need to have faith n trust that hes not any of ur ex

relationships are based on trust, and if you can’t trust your boyfriend you’re going to have more major problems than just going out. x

of coarse it is normal! But you have to have trust in your boo

no, its not normal. You are supposed to trust your bf. Either that are you are insecure

i get nervous about that too but you’ll be ok just overdrawtrusthim

I’d just go out with him.

I know. Why should he want to go out if he has you? I feel the same way

Nope. If he has given you a reason to feel this way you should not even be with him. . .

You dont have trust

No, that’s a sign of a bad relationship… it’s not good at all

It depends on ur bf and if he has ever cheated on u in the past or any of his ex"s

no. He should leave you.

yes it is normal, its normal because if their that type of person you can see it in them

no its not normal cuz dat means ur inseure in ur relationship n wuts a relationship witout trust?

its normal to feel like that with ur bf, but its not really healthy for your relationship to always worry about it until u hav reason to think he is

It depends on him if he has cheated on u in the past or any of his ex’s but if not let him go out and have fun and u should to smile

its normal to feel like that with ur bf but its not really healthy for your relationship to always worry about it until u hav reason to think he is

If your bf has noo history of it you should have nothing to worry about if he has a history its normal

yeah its normal but u shud also be okay wth him having a life without u in in all the time

Yeah its normal but its also healthy that he goes out with out u sometimes so dont worry

Yea but you got to trust him

Completlly normal

i think its not really normal but if its ur first bf then maybe or if u have been hurt many times before

well if you have trust on him dont worry to much about it cause then it stayz w u 4eva nd tatz y sumtymez they brake up w u

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yes this makes much since bt at the same time if ou both are on the same page about not using protection then if that happen to come up its only right to take care of responsibility

i feel da same way :( its sad wen u cant trust da one u love…Idk, hav u had jealousy problems in da past?

everyone needs their own alone time. Forcing him not to go out is just gonna make him resent you

you need to take care of your in securities first. This is not normal. You r not happy with urself

No because in a relationship there should be trust with one another other wise the relationship will kome down

its perfectly normal. dont worry about it.

I think it`s normal. I ALWAYS feel like that! BuT that`s why relationships are based on trust.

RE:|I feel the same… But its not good… Im tryin 2 stop dat cus its bad 4 da relation ship…

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