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I’ve been dating this person, but I don’t trust him. He says he really cares for me and I want to believe him but I don’t. I want to trust him, but then I don’t. He says he’s honest but he hardly ever shows it. I don’t know what to do anymore. From Compton, CA

The BOM Ambassadors say

If you don’t have trust, you don’t have a solid relationship. In order to be trusted, you have to show you’re trustworthy and if you’ve talked him about what you need and he’s unwilling or unable to give it to you, he may not be the one.

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you shouldn’t doubt him if he shows he cares then he cares

work on your self esteem before you start dating people . Also action speaks louder then words

just talk to him and try to get his honest answer…if he actually does care like if says he does then you will notice it

Go with your gut.

if you dont belive him then why are you with him?

If he says he does and you want to see it. Ask him to show you he does care

if the guy ur dating says he cares about u and u dont believe him u should make him tell u why he does. when he says it tell him to tell u a few reasons of why. The reasons have to b sincere n not of wat u can hear from every guy. But he needs to b able to back up wat he says

Well if u have to ask thats always a bad sign. Also remember actions speak louder then words.

Learn to trust him

if you dnt trust him how can you be with him yall need 2 have a one on one talk

Look at yourself. Your insecure. Most of the time when a guy says he cares for you he’s not lying. Look at your insecurities and realize that guys like girls wit confidence.

idk u got problems missy lol jk ask him make a heart to heart moment

you should believe him.

asdk him. be honest and talk it out.

run, quickly.

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