i cheated on him 3 times

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My boyfriend and I broke up recently. We were together for 4 yrs and we have a child together. The reason it ended was because I was unfaithful and I also think a lack of communication. My boyfriend would never like to hang out with me or even spend time with me and my daughter. When we both had our days off all he wanted to do is play video games. The thing that would get me upset is that whenever his friends invited him somewhere he would be there in a second. Whenever I would tell him �lets go out� he would say "You know I�m not the type that likes to go out". It�s frustrating and I think that�s the reason I cheated on him. He would pay attention to my sister�s looks but if I tried something new on myself he would say "why are you wearing that". That would really hurt my feelings, because I wanted him to look at me the same way he looked at other girls. Now that we are no longer together I miss him sooo much. He left me because I cheated 3 times. What should I do, move on? Does this mean I didn�t love him because I cheated so many times? I feel terrible inside.

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If you feel you have to cheat to get the attention you feel you deserve, then move on. If you get back together, your relationship will be based on lies, unfaithfulness, no communication, etc. You shouldn�t have to try drastic measures to get your partners attention. Your partner should pay attention to you even when you aren�t trying. Just because you have a baby together does not mean that you HAVE to be together because all you both will be doing is setting your daughter up to see that it is ok to be in an unhealthy relationship. It�s better that your daughter grows up with separated parents that are both happy then parents together that are miserable and doing the things that both of you are doing. Now that you have a daughter, it makes it harder to make decisions but never impossible.

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you should stop cheating

first off all u should move on

Yeah there is a reason why you keep cheating so let go

Yaa you should. 3 times?! Sorry but i’d leave you too.

definately! i wouldd

Yes u should move on

Yes. Ur not ready to be in a relationship if ur cheating

Why would he even go back to you. You cheated three times if anyone should move on its him!

What you moving on from if you cheated you must have nevered cared about him what so ever at all

yes cause its only going to hurt yourself and him more

duhh you cheated 3 times dont you think he can do better too…thats messed up! Think about how you would feel if you were in his position…

I think HE should leave you because you obviously don’t like nor love him if you’ve cheated on him three times ! He doesn’t deserve that so you should do you both the favor and just forget eachother .

gurl u cheated on him 3 times it looks like u dont like him anymore and he ant going to take it anymore he moved on and so should u

definitely. if you don’t respect him enough to be faithfful to him, then i think not only do you need to let go, but you need to work on yourself too.

keep pushing cheater. You don’t the title hanging you need only friends!

If you’ve cheated you already moved on

yes u caused him to leave u hes not coming bak

of course you should move on its obvious that he has so why shouldn’t you?

yes haha he isn’t satisfying you enough! Move on!

if you cheated, you obviously have problems with staying in a commited relationship. i dont blame him for leaving. the whole issue is mostly your fault.

yea u should n try 2 stay with one n only one n if u dont like just one dont b wit anyone because u gona end up geting hurt a.k.a. carma

Yer u should move on

why did you cheat im surprised he didn’t leave after the first time you obviously moved on 16:07:36

no shit! its been time to move on!

sounds like you already moved on, respect yourself n your body.

You need to move on! Once could be labeled as a mistake but 3x is too many!! Maybe you aren’t ready to be in a COMMITTED relationship!

he’s right for leaving you so you might as well move on and hopefully this time you’ll learn to be faithfull

I think u should move on its for the best

looks like you already did…3 times..

Yes u should move on because i dont think anyone would want to come back to their loved one if they cheated 3 times and maybe u dont love him cuz u cheated a few times

yes esp. If u cheated. He’s obviously not worth your time if you cheated

Umm he should have moved on a long time ago

yes because u are the one who cheeted on him from

yes move on, u cheated u must not want him 2 much.

move on even if u do get bacc together he’ll never trust u

Yes moved on dummy

OF COURSE…ima guy so if my gurl cheated on me 3x i def wouldnt care about her so u shuldnt care about him cuz he prolly doesnt care about U…....

yeah move on hes not comin bak

Yes move on you shouldnt have cheated

First try to work out a plan with him and if that doesnt work then the only thing you can do is move on

seems like u already did 3 times

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3 times is bad girl.. move on cuz you is only hurting him

No shit sherlock