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Right after my boyfriend left the state we would text and talk every day. Now we speak, maybe, once a week and that’s only if I call or text him. I’m wondering if he really loves me like he says he does or if he’s just dragging out the relationship because he wants to still be able to sleep with me or whatever.

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It doesn’t seem like using you for sex. He moved out of the state so he might not want a long distance relationship or he might have found another girl and he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
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Long distance relationships never work out. You just got to love him enough to let him go.

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Long distant relationships can work out as long as both people are committed and content with their position.

i think you should end because if your only going to make it work its not worth it cuz hes not meeting you half way

he is playing you

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How do you even know what he is doing.. it's only an assumption.

dump him hes not worth the drama nd u cud probly find someone better

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What drama?

Break uo with him

hes obviously not w/ u so u guys can kiss & do watever u guys do. but u hve to understand tht ur now dealing w/ a long distant relatinship. can u handle?

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Can u?

Wow!!! Its time to move on cuz u know for a fact that is cheating on u and for u to site and wait for him i dont think so…u know

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It isn't known if he is cheating or not.

He might be with another girl or he just wants space

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Ask him, don't assume what he is doing

i think you should end because if your only going to make it work its not worth it cuz hes not meeting you half way 16:04:40

He has lost interest maybe

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Maybe but, not for sure

If he is not calling u stop calling him see wat happens

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out of sight out of mind

omg the same thing happened to me talk to him about decide on something together

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Communication is the key. Stop assuming the worst

He moved on….Your love is drifting slowly

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It's another said love song

he just wants to move on with his life and you should as well and find another guy

hes not intdrested no more!

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Did he say he wasn't interested?

obviously somethings not the same in your relationship. its hard to make long distance relationships work . you should talk to him about it .

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Yeah the distant is different

he doesnt want 2 talk 2 u anymore but kant find a way 2 say it so he just stops callin n waits tills u get tired of it n leave him

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Maybe you should just talk to him.. How does he know how you feel if you don't tells him?

you should probably consider how long hes gonna be out of state and if he will come back but other than that, if you guys only talk when you call/txt then maybe it would be a good idea to break up n just be friends because 2 people need to be dedicated not just one. Hope this helped

For one that means he’s not thinking about you as much as u have been thinkin bout him. And two you have to consider that he might have moved on. Just move

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Just because he doesn't call doesn't mean he is not thinking about her. He is probably trying to adjust to his new surroundings.

if he’s not comming back you should cut it off

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Don't burn any bridges, you'll lose everything, even friendship.

lng distance relationships are hard nd if he realy wants to make it work he would try too

Wait or move to him

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And communicate!!! Talk to him, girl!!!!

me and my bf have the same issue he moved 6hrs away..its hard but I love him and we work on it. I suggest you bring it up to him and sort it out 2gether

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Perfect example!!!!

He practically dumped you. Move on!

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ouch. mean!!!

then if he really likes u he will move back

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What if the location is out of his hands? Then what?

Well you should talk to him and let him know that upsets you and if he cant understand then you guys shouldnt be together

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true

yeah, something is wrong

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