My boyfriend smokes weed once in a great while, but I still do not approve of it, and that’s making us have problems already, even though we haven’t been together that long.

Should I tell my friend that her lying to me is really affecting our friendship?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year but every time he drinks or smokes, I break up with him. He broke promises to me 3 times about not smoking and after the 4th promise he did stop. He hasn’t smoked since but recently he went to a party and he drank and I found out. It made me not be with him but now he keeps begging me to get back together and promising that he won’t do it anymore. He feels really bad but I think I lost the feelings I had for him. What should I do?

Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for at least a month and he isn’t pressuring me to do anything but we haven’t even made out yet. I want to but I’m not sure if I should. Like, I like to take things slow but I don’t want to lose him…

I have known this guy for 5 1/2 years and he has been my best friend. But I don't know how to tell him that I am in love with him or ask if he has feelings for me. Help!

Ok well, me and my boyfriend are like madly in love, but there's two people trying to get in the way. One likes him the other likes me. I honestly don't know what to do! It's breaking my heart because the worse it gets the less he tells me he loves me and stuff.

My boyfriend lives in Mexico and I live in Cali. I’ve been waiting for 2 years but it’s getting really annoying because all he does is lie over the phone and he never answers and all he does is tell me all kinds of rude stuff. He says he’s coming back but I really don’t believe him. What should I do? Should I wait around a couple more months or should I find someone else and just be his friend? From Apple Valley, Ca

My boyfriend and I broke up recently. We were together for 4 yrs and we have a child together. The reason it ended was because I was unfaithful and I also think a lack of communication. My boyfriend would never like to hang out with me or even spend time with me and my daughter. When we both had our days off all he wanted to do is play video games. The thing that would get me upset is that whenever his friends invited him somewhere he would be there in a second. Whenever I would tell him “lets go out” he would say "You know I’m not the type that likes to go out". It’s frustrating and I think that’s the reason I cheated on him. He would pay attention to my sister’s looks but if I tried something new on myself he would say "why are you wearing that". That would really hurt my feelings, because I wanted him to look at me the same way he looked at other girls. Now that we are no longer together I miss him sooo much. He left me because I cheated 3 times. What should I do, move on? Does this mean I didn’t love him because I cheated so many times? I feel terrible inside.

The guy that I was dating asked me to give him time and to be patient. We have a great connection, but he is not over his ex. I really care for him so much that I’m willing to wait for him. What should I do? How much time?

I really like this guy, well he’s actually my boyfriend…but I don’t think he’s for me even if I did ask him out. We both liked each other for a long time and I was afraid to ask him out but I did and he said yes but now he’s moving too fast for me....

Right after my boyfriend left the state we would text and talk every day. Now we speak, maybe, once a week and that’s only if I call or text him. I’m wondering if he really loves me like he says he does or if he’s just dragging out the relationship because he wants to still be able to sleep with me or whatever.

I have two kids with my boyfriend right now, and he seems to always be cheating on me. I caught him, like two days ago, talking to some girl. And I want to know, what should I do? Should I give him another chance or should I just let him go because this is like the fourth time he’s done this to me. He says it’s because I’m not there for him so he goes out and looks for someone else to talk to.

I've known this guy for a while and we hang out a lot. He already met my parents and I met his family. The one problem is, I'm not his girlfriend and he can't decide whether to ask me out or get back with his ex-girlfriend. We've been doing the "friends with benefits" thing for a month and I told him to decide by the end of 2009. I'm in love with him so what should I do? My friends already talked to him and told him he needed to make a decision and he said his choice was neither. I told him I can't continue this and that whatever we were doing is over. I’m worried, what should I do move on or wait for him to decide? Should I ask him if he really wants to be with me? Help please!

I’ve been dating this person, but I don’t trust him. He says he really cares for me and I want to believe him but I don’t. I want to trust him, but then I don’t. He says he’s honest but he hardly ever shows it. I don’t know what to do anymore. From Compton, CA

What do you do if you find out someone you’re dating is a family member of yours?

Is it wrong to get back with someone who broke your heart just to break theirs?