Stop Block’n!
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone, and then you break it off with them for good, and they stay on your tab or just stay in your business? Well my friend Tiffany could answer that question, because she told me a story about something very similar.
Tiffany and John had been going out for about 3 months, but after going back and forth with their domestic violence problems, Tiffany broke it off! After things settled with Tiffany and she got some B.O.M in her life, she went searching for new love. Tiffany told me her new man “treats her good,” and she was really happy. She said his name was Kris.
Well anyway, one night Tiffany and Kris went out to dinner, and while out she just so happened to run into her ex-boyfriend, John. Once noticing, Tiffany tried to ignore the fact her abusive ex boyfriend was in the same restaurant, but John noticed before Tiffany could! Before you know it, John was all in her & Kris’s face flirting and showing off his pride. John started to say things to Tiffany like “what were you thinking?” and “you left me for that?” Kris remained calm and asked Tiffany to leave with him, but John became mad and insisted to Tiffany that with him is were she needed to be.
Ignoring John, they made their exit, but Tiffany was stopped by a ruff tug at the arm (the same tug that broke her hand lock with Kris while leaving.xoxo) that stopped her were she stood. Tiffany said as soon as he grabbed her, Kris punched John Knocking him out!!! Lol. Tiffany just laughed, and was shocked. Kris apologized to Tiffany for how the night turned out at the end, and drove her home and made her dinner there.
I asked Tiffany “why were you laughing when John got punched?” She said because he got what he deserved, and Kris yelled “STOP BLOCK’N” while hitting him. Lol. From just what Tiffany told me we can all see how “Block’n” on a partner’s relationship once done, is no good. It causes drama, and extra problems like in Tiffany’s case and most cases, that we all could avoid. Men are not the only ones that be block’n, girls do too.
I know you’ve got calls from your man’s ex girl who still might want him back, or you know a female that has had a fight over a dude their not even going out with; all the wild that dude himself has a girlfriend and it wasn’t even who that female was fighting.
Basically, it is not a good idea to try to be in contact with anyone who doesn’t want contact with you, and you should always remember not to be a hater. If you see someone’s content with what they have respect that! Oh, and always stay true to yourself, and do what’s health for you.
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