Boss Of Me - BOM411
 
My boyfriend doesn't want to use condoms, he say the feeling doesn't feel good. I agree and I want to pleasure my boyfriend, but I’m afraid. I’m only sixteen, in high school and still dependent on my parents. What should I say to my boyfriend so he won’t be mad at me for wanting to use condoms?
 
 
 I've been in a lot of different relationships and I ended up having a child with one of my partners. Our relationship was messy and sometimes got physical. I'm not ready to have a relationship right now but when I am ready, how do I make sure I don't repeat the same mistakes I did with my daughter's mother? I don't want my relationship to get physical with anyone else.
 
 
I don't want to tell my parents and my boyfriend that I'm pregnant because I am afraid of how they're going to react. I'm thinking about keeping the baby. How should I tell them?
 
 
My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and now I’m 3 months pregnant with his baby. I feel like I’m not ready to have a baby because I’m only a sophomore in high school but he says that I can’t get rid of the baby because it’s his baby. I don’t know what to do. I feel like I’m too young and not ready for a baby. How do I tell him?

 
 
At 15, I decided to run away to live with my boyfriend who’s 4 years older than me. After the first month of staying together, he started saying I need to contribute to the household. I told him I can’t get a job and he said his friend would give us money if I had sex with him. I said no but he told me that if I really love him, I would do it for us. He told me an amount to charge and that I shouldn’t use condoms because we can get more money. I really want to help our living situation but I don’t want to catch anything or get pregnant by someone else. Am I wrong for not wanting to contribute?

 
 
My boyfriend and I know we’re not ready for a baby so we decided to use condoms. I’m too embarrassed to buy them, I wouldn’t want anyone to see me because then people might think I’m a slut or something. My bf thinks it’s not fair to put it all on him but I think it’s the man’s responsibility. If he wants to have sex with me, he can bring one, don’t you think? I mean, whose responsibility is it to bring the condom?
 
 
I’ve been with my girl for like almost a year now and we got a baby on the way and everything. We argue a lot because she never really shows too much feelings for me or anything and she claims that she does and I give her pretty much everything I can. I always buy her things and I always show her love, I never slack on things I really give her everything I can. We argue sometimes because she’s not there for me. She puts her family before me and a lot of stuff like that. I know it hasn’t been that long that we’ve together but we got a baby on the way and everything, she’s like my family now. She is my family now I just want to know what I should do to make her get closer to me and everything because I’m starting to get sick of it.
 
 
I have two kids with my boyfriend right now, and he seems to always be cheating on me. I caught him, like two days ago, talking to some girl. And I want to know, what should I do? Should I give him another chance or should I just let him go because this is like the fourth time he’s done this to me. He says it’s because I’m not there for him so he goes out and looks for someone else to talk to.
 
 
My boyfriend and I broke up recently. We were together for 4 yrs and we have a child together. The reason it ended was because I was unfaithful and I also think a lack of communication. My boyfriend would never like to hang out with me or even spend time with me and my daughter. When we both had our days off all he wanted to do is play video games. The thing that would get me upset is that whenever his friends invited him somewhere he would be there in a second. Whenever I would tell him “lets go out” he would say "You know I’m not the type that likes to go out". It’s frustrating and I think that’s the reason I cheated on him. He would pay attention to my sister’s looks but if I tried something new on myself he would say "why are you wearing that". That would really hurt my feelings, because I wanted him to look at me the same way he looked at other girls. Now that we are no longer together I miss him sooo much. He left me because I cheated 3 times. What should I do, move on? Does this mean I didn’t love him because I cheated so many times? I feel terrible inside.
 
 
My gf is pregnant but I think it might be from someone else. Should I stay with her or leave?