Boss Of Me - BOM411
 
My boyfriend and I are having issues and I have decided to break up with him. He cheated on me, so he should see this coming. But it's around the holidays and my family is excepting him to show up to all the gatherings. They even bought him presents. What should I do? Should I break up with him now, to save all the drama? Or should I stay with him to avoid the question of where's your boyfriend at?
 
 
I'm too embarrassed to tell my girlfriend I don't have money to buy a birthday gift for her. Is it wrong if I break up with her and then get back with her like a week later?
 
 
My girlfriend and I went to the mall and she got upset and started to yell at me because I wouldn’t buy her a pair of jeans, I haven’t spoken to her in a day. How do I approach this situation?
 
 
So me and my boyfriend’s 2 year anniversary is coming up and I don’t have any money to get him anything without seeming cheap…_
 
 
My girlfriend always expects me to pay when we go out to dinner. I like to do it sometimes but I can’t always afford it.  What I should I say the next time the check comes?
 
 
My girlfriend and I went to the mall and she got upset and started to yell at me because I wouldn’t buy her a pair of jeans, I haven’t spoken to her in a day. How do I approach this situation?
 
 
Every time I try to take my boyfriend out, or pay for things, he always gets upset and won’t let me even though he’s broke and my parents give me allowance every week and I have an after-school job. He doesn’t understand why I want to be financially independent, he thinks letting me pay makes him less of a man, but I don’t like feeling guilty or indebted to him. How do I get him to let me at least pay my own way?
 
 
Is it stupid to give your boo money after only the first week of being together?
 
 
I think my bf is stealing some of my money. I still wanna be with him but I can’t have him stealing from me. What should I do?
 
 
I feel like I deserve to go out more with my bf but he says he never has enough money. But at the same time, he is always buying himself new stuff. Is it wrong to go to the movies with another boy, so I can make him jealous and realize he should be treating me more?