by Darelle

Why is that when dudes talk to a lot of females and have sexual relations with them, they are awarded? They are often complimented because of their actions and people go on as if there’s nothing wrong with it. On the other hand when a female does that same exact thing, she is called all kinds of negative names. It could be because at a young age a lot of boys were seeing their older role models with different females. Also a lot of TV shows publicize that act and music entertainers are promoting a number of females in their videos revealing sexual part of their body.

Females can be called such degrading and insulting names whenever they’re just having fun sleeping around with different guys. A lot of this happens because females seem to be held to a higher standard. They have more expectations about the conditions of their sexual exploits. I don’t think it’s fair, but I do believe that this understanding of how unbalanced the standard for the different sexes will never change. I believe there are a lot of people who think it’s alright for females to sleep around with different guys; but for every person who thinks that, there’re four people who think otherwise.

Some people think when a guy has a lot of females, he’s a mack or a player. Most males' dream is to have sex with a lot of different females and have bragging rights. This plays in because females are usually prey and the males are the predators. Males usually have to impress or convince a female to sleep with him, in some cases its challenging. So whenever a guy has lots of different sexual partners there’re often looked up to for their success. In addition, men have access to the other material thing that a woman has to offer.  The rewards men may get socially for their sexual conquests does not make up for the damage it can do to women and their overall image.