by Eyama Harris

Confidence is the longer end of the stick, some think that confidence means conceited. Those who get that impression of how you carry yourself are haters or want that too. To be well accomplished and have your priorities straight is something to be proud of. Educated, well represented, your able to back up yourself & everything your about. To be goal orientated and a people pleaser is what people long for. Some people have it and some don't, some people want it and others own it. It’s a characteristic that many carry! Maybe you just love who you are, or love your life in general, but trust me the most confident person has shit to deal with. Meaning life may not be all "peaches & cream" as it looks.

But confidence displays your willfulness to get through the BS! It displays your beliefs with your internal-self. It keeps you humble and on level. Low self-esteem is the other end of the stick, you may come up short. Its depressing to feel bad internally. Low self-esteem comes from that same voice that makes us confident, only instead of your good characteristics you point out all the bad ones. Its draining, and it makes you feel worst. All low self-esteem displays is a negative picture of who you are. It makes you feel like the worst person in the world, and your not. Not to say if you have confidence your the best person, but again confidence helps you feel better about the thing that aren't going  right in your life & helps you move ahead. So good, to the point you fix those negative things effortlessly; and remain confident. Low self-esteem may motivate some to do better, but really thinking about all the negative things, and feeling bad about who you are keeps you stuck, unable to fix what makes you feel this way. You have to be at your best to move ahead. Healthy, Positive, & I believe Confident. Remember love yourself first, then you will be able to love others. Remain true to yourself. Treat others how you want to be treated. Oh, and Be The Boss of You!!!!